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a letter to my ex
08.13.04 (6:10 am)   [edit]
Write a paragraph to someone who has hurt your feelings without using the word "you".


I don't understand.  It has been 4 years.  We are both remarried.  We have both moved along.  I don't understand still why the bitterness remains.  Can we not grow from this?  Can we not work together for our children.

I can't comprehend how a Father can be loving and involved one day and then the next ignore the children he so wanted and helped create.  I don't know how anyone can think a card on a birthday with money is enough.  What about the other 364 days of the year?  What about phone calls and letters?  What about emails and photographs? 

We have three beautiful, talented, friendly, loving children together.  Our marriage is over but the children are still here.  It is sad their Father has no interest.  They have a new Daddy thankfully - he treats them as thought they are his - he loves them.  He listens to them.  He takes interest in them.  But he will never replace the need for their real Father in their life. 

But what I fail to understand the most is how someone who works as a psychotherapist, who treats adults badly damaged from childhoods where they felt abandoned and unwanted - can treat his children in such a way.

I have pity - I have great pity for someone that I know will have many regrets in their old age.
 
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